In this video, I talk about one thing you can do to become more well-liked by people.
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So why should you care if people like you?
Well, in my experience the people who are the most well-liked usually get more of what they want in life. They can make connections more easily, which makes them more successful in getting their dream job or growing their business. They are able to attract friends easily, because people want to be around them more. And they do better in their dating life attracting a romantic partner.
So it makes sense to take a look at how you are coming across to people, and see if you can make some small changes so people will like you more.
One of the things I’ve noticed almost all well-liked people doing is radiating warmth and positivity. In this video, I explain 3 tips that can also help you express yourself in a warm and positive way.
- Overcoming the belief that people suck. When you haven’t had many close friendships or good social experiences before, you may start to feel jealous and hostile toward normal people. You get a distorted image that ALL people are more superficial and dumb than they actually are.
- Self consciousness makes you painfully aware of everything you say and do. It stops you from being warm and positive because you are too focused on the wrong channels of communication. In the video I explain more and guide you out of self-consciousness.
- Deeper blocks. Depression, feelings of shame and unworthiness… often go along with shyness or social anxiety. You cannot get out of these holes by simply “thinking positive,” you have to get rid of the cause of why you feel miserable much of the time. Toxic shame is one of these possible deeper causes.
The reason I’ve started recording videos like this is because I want to develop myself into a better speaker and teacher. Being able to watch myself on video is great practice.
I also get many comments from people are asking me to keep making the videos because they’re useful. I’ve already received over 200 new Youtube subscribers on my channel in the past 2 weeks.
Don’t worry, I’m planning to do one new video a week for the near future. Hopefully they will get better and better. 🙂
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