Don’t you hate it when you have nothing to say?
I recorded a short video for you that shows 3 ways of curing the “I don’t know what to say” issue.
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Sean Cooper
I study all areas of psychology, sharing what works (and what doesn't) for overcoming shyness and social anxiety. After curing my own severe social anxiety I created "The Shyness and Social Anxiety System" to help others. This program has received stunning reviews from psychologists and people like you.
Now it's my life's mission is to help 25,000 people get the confidence, friends and romantic partner you want!
An added difficulty for many people that lack social confidence is that they tend to only have a narrow range of interests, but these may be very deep interests. Some people, including myself have a natural disposition towards this, but it can make socialising quite tough.
The way to deal with this is to find people with those same interests and passions. Go out and look for them. You can search through Facebook using the filters, or go to meetup groups for this. Better still, see if you can use your specialist interests to help someone. I used to have great interest in cars as a teenager, and although I was totally oblivious to the social world, people would always come to me if they wanted car advice.
Finding people who specifically share your interests , will make conversations so much easier, and is a way to make good friends even if your social skills in general aren’t that great.